Dear Readers,
No new sightings to write about this week, just some interesting thoughts you might enjoy. It's been very cold this January, night temps in the teens and single digits. The artic chill I feel going outside hasn't tempted me to go out, I am content to enjoy my sightings 'vacation' until the weather gets warmer.
I have a feeling this year won't be quite as active as last, but I say that just about every year. This is the time where I think about my sightings hobby and question why I continue to do it. After 9 years, at what point will I have seen enough women pee outside that it's thrill will begin to fade? I've never completely understood why this fascinates me so much anyway, but by accident last week I think I finally found out. I was doing web research last week: checking the links to other pee sites that are on my site's 'What's new' page to see if they still worked and to see what new sites on the subject have popped up lately. I found a few new pee picture sites, all of the hard-core peeing variety (naked squirting pussies). The newest thing is teenage girl pee sites, I'm assuming the models are adults made up to look like teens because it's illegal if they are teenage girls. Looking at the pictures on these sites I found myself quickly getting bored, they're all too 'perfect': great lighting, poses, pussy shots and most of the girls are smiling at the camera. None of it is real, as we know a lady who goes to pee outside isn't going to pick a well-lit spot where every detail of her can be clearly seen. And when her panties come down, you're usually not going to see a perfect body and a pussy peeing a perfect, photogenic stream. No, the reality of what you'd see is far more varied - and interesting - than that stuff and the most interesting part isn't on the websites, which is how the lady came to be in that situation where she's peeing outside. I've always enjoyed seeing a lady in public who has to pee, as most don't express their need until the pressure in their bladder is almost unbearable.
A lady becomes very sexy at this point, especially when there is no bathroom nearby. Everything about her at this point and what she does fascinates me - the sound of her voice, facial expressions and body language as the growing pressure in her bladder makes her more tense and jittery. She realizes she's going to have to pee outside or she's going to wet herself, what does she do?
Some ladies get hysterical at this point, some seem afraid and anxious, some act like they're in severe pain, while others are calm about it and show no outward signs of discomfort. Some make a mad dash to a spot and hurriedly yank down their panties, others are calm about it and seem in no hurry.
When they pee some clearly want to get it over quickly, some seem to enjoy it, some seem very tense and uncomfortable and others are very nonchalant and comfortable doing it. Their reaction when they discover someone sees them peeing is just as varied and interesting.... In my sightings environment, it's 50-50 any lady I see walking about the area has to pee - so it's not a stretch for me to imagine any of them in that situation. I don't have to do anything to bring this about, just be there! It is great to get my shots of some of them peeing, but it is the behavior of the ladies leading up to the shots that I remember them most for and the sight/sound/smell of their piss - if circumstances allow me to see those things - that is the real appeal for me as every lady's behavior in that situation is uniquely interesting.
From that standpoint, even my pictures barely scratch the surface of the whole story! I write my stories to remember those little sexy things about each lady in her desperate situation. I think you have to have a lot of affection for the ladies to do this the way I do. I'm surprised no other sites have popped up with a similar theme, since I hear from so many other guys who also get nothing from looking at pictures of naked pussies peeing that have no story to them.
But I do hear from a lot of guys who like the naked pussy stuff, they have no interest in stories or anything about the ladies in my shots - they just want to see 'naked squirting pussies'. They'll get a few of my photos or an album and find them boring, because they aren't like the posed fantasy shots. Keeping the pictures in the context of 'visual fantasy objects' does make them lose their appeal pretty quickly, you're always looking for the next shot that is more 'perfect'. For me, things like the sound of a lady's voice or her splattering stream, how absurd she looked running to the spot where she went and the way she hiked up her skirt or pulled down her pants and peed, how she reacted to being caught or what she said, etc., are what make each shot - and sighting - unique and unforgettable - and this stuff, I will never get tired of!

Website update: I did finally get a new web host, am now going through all the administrative stuff to get my domain transferred to the new host. Things have changed since I got that first web host, they now have new website management tools and software to manage websites that I will have to learn. It shouldn't be difficult for me at this point, but is still a learning curve. For example, I will no longer need to use Unix commands through Telnet to configure the new website, that has been replaced by web-based software that requires no programming knowledge. Content-wise my site will be pretty much the same, it was getting my message out pretty effectively and I want it to continue to be different than the other pee sites. Sometime in February, desperatewomen.com should be back! If you have any thoughts about the subject of what keeps you interested in trying to see ladies peeing - or reading stories like mine, I'd like to hear them!

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