The most popular enjoyment of pissing for pleasure amongst women is holding their full bladders. It develops into some really satisfying sexy fun that can be done without attracting attention and for the woman it's very erotic & pleasurable, it's lots of sexy fun and in most cases, the pain mixed with the pleasure is extremely orgasmic & highly sexual. A full bladder for a woman can be (and usually is) a huge sexual turn-on and often leads to intense female masturbation. Women who masturbate with a full bladder achieve far more satisfying deeper orgasms. The sexual turn-on for a man in this case is actually seeing a female who is desperate to pee, he can see your secret because an experienced male who enjoys watersports & women pissing can usually tell if a female is dying to pee, this is because he has a life time of similar occasions on recall. He will get very aroused seeing a female in this desperate situation and will be used later as a prelude for sex.
Now if it's a male who is holding his pee, he will go for the competition side
of watersports, (similar to males comparing dick size) like the amount he's
pissed or how far he can pee, but there is no sexual turn-on for a male
with a full bladder. Some females like to see a man dying to pee and get him to
admit it. It gives the woman a feeling of power over the man as he has been the
one to give in and admit to needing a piss, where she has been clever in her
bladder holding, she's not revealed or displayed her need to pee and she has
enjoyed it along the way, while successfully managing to wait him out. Some
women will privately try and have a 'competition' with other women: say on a
night out in a restaurant or bar, trying not to be the first one who has to
leave the group to go and have a piss, or when she's out on a date with a new
man, holding her bladder to be one better than him. Nowadays with women drinking
pints the same as men, it's a one for one 'piss fun' sex situation.
There is of course, the shy woman who doesn't pee for that reason alone, she sits and suffers in silence with her bladder throbbing and that's no fun at all!
This is where the interest in peeing starts and generally the female will keep
her new found source of peeing pleasure to herself, she doesn't mention it and
just quietly enjoys her bladder holding sessions and maybe later, she may take
the next step and develop into a discreet public pisser or a deliberate panty
wetter, which would probably be done at home or somewhere she might not get
caught. But sometimes it's the fun side of the naughty thrill of being actually
caught that is the sexual turn-on.
The male on the other hand probably won't stay alone with this wet sex fetish and will try and find a pee partner to extend his pissing pleasure. Sometimes the male isn't able to confide in his regular partner of his fetish for pissing, so he'll go off looking elsewhere by placing or/and replying to adverts, becoming a voyeur or maybe paying for it by visiting prostitutes.
The conclusion from the above paragraphs is what was clearly and painfully visible in all of the letters, stories and sex confessions that Cascade received from its contributors during the 90s.
Now of course, with the Internet at everyone's fingertips, it's so much easier to seek out willing partners who have the same wet sex pissing fetish; sexy and directly poignant 'anon' messages can be exchanged on watersports message boards and pissing sex chat rooms to find out if they have the same pissing likes and dislikes, the main objective is all voiced from the comfort of the home behind a completely safe screen. What normally would have taken years (or simply never achieved) in the previous decades, now can be achieved within weeks. When the two 'strangers' feel reasonably safe after exchanging their pissy sex fun messages and want to take it further, then the mobile numbers are exchanged (which is the next safe 'anon screen'), then in their own time they eventually meet and only then can they put out the fire - literally!
If you're inquisitive, attracted or just pee curious and you'd like
to find out more about this particular peeing, pissing, wetting or wet fun pee
games aspect of sex & foreplay, then you're welcome to read on and if you'd like
to, contribute with your wet sex ideas and wetting experiences to pass on to
others who may also like what you do.
When Cascade used to compile their magazine back in the 90s, it was made up from reader's contributions and the amount of people (of all ages) who used to write to us and say, "thank goodness I've found you, I thought I was the only one who liked peeing and I thought there was something wrong with me" - yes, honestly, they really thought they were on their own!
But of course, that was the days before the Internet, at the very most in the pre-Internet days there were peeing letters and articles on the wet sex fun theme in Adult magazines and of course the odd one or two adverts in top shelf magazines for the new Adult phone lines, a few of these lines catered for the wet sex & peeing fans. Cascade had some of those numbers, they were called premium rate numbers and were about 36p per minute! One of the numbers was used to promote Cascade magazine and that's initially where our subscribers came from and that's the moment in their lives when the people curious about peeing and its sexual connections stopped and realised there were other males and females who enjoyed the same wet sex watersports thing.
In the mid 90s, Cascade had a mobile phone number, (one of the first) 0838 8380 (it read the same back to front) - and the number was advertised in Forum magazine, it was called the 'Ladies' Live Line' and it invited women who enjoyed aspects of the fun side of peeing to ring in and talk to someone who had complete understanding and felt the same way, it was an experiment if you like, but one that paid off as there were no end of calls, mostly from women, but we did get a laugh from the female impersonators as well.
It was then that the realisation came about that there are men & women who enjoy the pleasures of pissing but obviously don't realise that they need not be on their own with their wet sex fetish. Not everyone wants to admit they have a wetting or peeing fantasy, some people never come out of their water closet, they choose to never disclose to anyone that they like holding their pee, or they'd like to wet themselves or something pissingly similar, it's such a shame.
Some of the contributors' letters sent for inclusion in Cascade magazine featured how they got into having fun with their peeing and most of the stories talk of experiences years ago when they were a kid, telling other readers about something that happened during childhood, (usually the school years) that laid dormant until later in life, then it was triggered and their wetting & peeing fun fascination began.
Nowadays, there are hundreds of pee fun and sex websites for you to look at,
some are more explicit than others and don't have much 'fun' about them - some
are more of a commercial venture wishing to make money out of watersports
pissing fans than wanting to help and encourage. But if you look, there are
peeing web sites for people who are curious and want to find out more about the
many pleasures that can be enjoyed with pissing, these are fun sites that care
for their visitors where you can get free watersports stuff and information
about the fun side of the pissing fetish, including the terms: wet sex,
watersports, golden showers, urolagnia, piss fun, public pissing, peeing games
and panties wetting - you get the idea!
If you're pee curious and would like to see what other people get up to, you could try watching a Peeing DVD, or with your specific genre in mind, DVDs cater for all different fetish tastes nowadays, but you WILL see the artists & models on watersports pee fun films having exactly that - FUN!! Nowadays you can download them onto your computer so it can be done discreetly. Piss fun is exactly that, it's folks having a good time, so that fact in itself is a BIG clue, maybe it's not gross at all? It looks like folks who like peeing are really enjoying themselves, they are pissing for pleasure!
So, realising it's been 20 years since Cascade started and ten years since it finished, there must be two more decades of males and females who might think they are on their own with their 'kinky' sex idea.
Cascade have put this page together to help you, to encourage you, to assure you and make you realise there is nothing wrong with you, it's all a perfectly natural development of normal sex, acceptable to most, it's good clean fun and you are definately NOT on your own!
So if you're a woman and you want to be a little pee devil and piss on your lover, go ahead! Or you think you'd like your fanny, your arse, your clit or your tits peed on - ASK! Maybe you'd like to try wetting yourself discreetly in public, or to hold a man's peeing cock and wave the pee stream about, or dip your hand into the pee stream and feel the warmth and power of his pee? Well, TRY IT!! So whether you just enjoy holding your pee 'till you burst, or you just simply enjoy the feeling and relief of a lovely long piss, carry on, have fun and enjoy!! Or you simply enjoy seeing others in a desperate to pee situation? Well, welcome to the world of pissing for pleasure!
If you're a fella who wants to feel the lovely warm stream of a woman's pee flowing over your body, ask her!! If you like watching women peeing, or hearing the sound of her gushing piss and her moaning with relief get a DVD! If you fancy drinking her urine, or her to hold your cock and play with your pee stream? Place a wet sex advert!! If you think you'd enjoy any of the afore mentioned and believe me, there's much, much more, then you are about to become a piss fetish fan and it's time to start to enjoy watersports!!
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